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Why You’re Still Single Even If You’re Going to Meetups

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with Single Player George

🎯 Going to meetups every week, showing up to events over and over again, hitting nerd conventions annually, and still single? You’re not alone. George is a 47-year-old Marvel and Star Wars fan who attends events regularly, has female friends, and can dance without drinking. So why hasn’t he found his Player 2? 🤔

🔒 The problem isn’t the meetups. It’s staying stuck in the container. George would meet women he liked, exchange Instagrams, but never unlock his social tree. He’d only connect 1-on-1 with women he was attracted to, then disappear if they wanted to be “just friends.” Why? He believed women decide whether you’re dateable within 30 seconds, so friendship = game over 👾

📊 According to my surveys, 70% of nerd couples who didn’t meet on dating apps started as friends (usually for 6 months to a year!). Even 20% of the couples who met on dating apps started as friends first! That “women decide in 30 seconds” rule? Debunked. The friend zone fear? Actually blocking him from the exact path most nerds take to find their Player 2 🎲

🧩 So what’s the missing piece? How do you turn meetup connections into actual dating opportunities? 🍷

🎧 Press Start to find out how to unlock 2-player mode! 🎮 🎮

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Timestamps for lazy nerds:

  • 00:00:00 Intro
  • 00:00:38 What Makes George A Nerd
  • 00:01:10 Going to Meetups
  • 00:04:16 Starting Out As Friends
  • 00:07:42 The Friends Next Door
  • 00:10:39 How Many Relationships Start As Friendships
  • 00:12:55 The Benefits of Friendships
  • 00:17:33 Meeting People At Meetups
  • 00:20:33 Scheduling Problems
  • 00:23:41 Choosing The Right Friends
  • 00:29:14 Being Vulnerable
  • 00:37:17 The Awkward Friend
  • 00:46:18 Final Thoughts

‘I’m Cooked’ (Where to Find Dates After College)

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with Single Player Brandon

🏫 How do you find dates after you’re done with college?  🕰️ For many people, high school and uni gave us the perfect place to meet people. But once that’s over, what do you do? How can you meet someone to date if you’re not meeting… well, basically anyone? 🤷

📜 After graduating, Brandon went from having built-in social circles to basically meeting nobody new. His dating life? Non-existent. His social life? Hanging out with the same small group of friends 2-3 times a year. His solution attempts? Cold approaches (didn’t work) and dating apps (traumatizing) 😰

🏢 “I’m stuck in the office for most of the time,” Brandon explains. Between his 9-to-5 and studying for nursing boards, he’s caught in the classic post-college trap: knowing he wants to meet someone but having zero clue where to start and feeling like he has no time to do it.

🎯 But here’s the thing: Brandon actually HAS opportunities. He goes to Riot Games Arena to watch esports matches, he’s into skateboarding, snowboarding, and wants to learn surfing. He just hasn’t connected the dots on how these hobbies can become his social networking goldmine.

🥘 If you’re feeling “cooked” because college social life seems like a distant memory, this episode breaks down exactly how to transform solo activities into friend-making (and potentially date-finding) opportunities 💘

🎧 Press Start and learn how to set your single-player hobbies to multi-player mode!

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Timestamps for lazy nerds:

  • 00:00:00 Intro
  • 00:01:02 Dating Life After College
  • 00:05:03 Dating App Trauma
  • 00:09:57 Getting Rejected
  • 00:18:26 Riot Games Arena
  • 00:20:33 Where to Meet Someone
  • 00:24:35 Step 1: Your Hobbies
  • 00:29:45 Step 2: Where to Meet People
  • 00:33:00 No Free Time to Socialize
  • 00:35:18 Socializing with Snowboarding
  • 00:40:05 Being shy… or not?
  • 00:46:26 Socializing At The Riot Games Arena
  • 00:53:14 A Video Shoot Missed Opportunity
  • 00:58:48 Having Options to Meet Someone
  • 01:03:53 Difficulties for Meeting Partners

From No Dates to Feeling Truly Seen and Accepted

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Kirk’s Story

💔 How can you find someone to date when dating apps aren’t working for you, and all you do is work, stay at home, and meet with the same D&D group or spend full days with one single person at a time playing Warhammer? 🧌

In this episode, Kirk shared his challenges to date as a single nerd 😰 Like many people, he was promised that “if you focus on yourself and sort your life out, someone will naturally come.” Unfortunately, that was not the case. He found a steady job and a home, but nobody to share his life with 🏡

📱 Since dating apps weren’t working, he decided to shelf the thought of a partner and focus on hobbies like Warhammer and TTRPG. Ironically, that’s what led to his first date ever. Even though Kirk started feeling like he was way too busy and almost without options, he managed to find a date. And in the same way that he found one, he can find another. And so can you 🫵

Sometimes, we create our characters in ways that don’t help us reach our complete specific quests 🤬 We thought a certain build would do the trick for every single area, but that’s often not the case.

🏢 The life you thought would lead to happiness may feel more like a trap than anything else. In those cases, taking a step back and thinking of ways to find your Player 2 may be the best strategy. Like Kirk, with some brainstorming and looking at your past successes, you may find a way to defeat the BBEG and get the loot! 🪙

🎧 Are you ready? PRESS START! 👾

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Where do nerds REALLY meet their Player 2?

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Are you going to keep grinding without finding out the truth?

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Related Episodes:

Timestamps for lazy nerds:

  • 00:00:00 Intro
  • 00:00:51 What Makes Kirk a Nerd
  • 00:02:27 Not Focusing on Dating
  • 00:06:11 The Battle of the Sexes
  • 00:13:02 Confessing to a Friend
  • 00:16:38 Rejection Aftermath
  • 00:24:39 Where to Meet Someone to Date
  • 00:26:52 Dating in Online Games
  • 00:31:30 Dating Apps
  • 00:37:38 Finding Possible Dates
  • 00:45:50 Expanding Your Social Network
  • 00:52:32 Leaving Your Comfort Zone
  • 00:56:41 Relationships Take Time
  • 00:58:33 Moving Forward