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The Twitch Streamer on Discord

by Alex

the Nerd Love Story of Luna and Jason

💬 Finding love on Discord is possible. Even if your Player 2 is the streamer who created the server. That said, there are some things you should keep in mind and that you want to avoid. After all, you can’t meet anyone in person if you get banned! 📵

In this episode, GamerMomLuna and Jason share how they went from a Twitch chat NPC to streamer relationship to a co-op campaign building a life under the same roof 🏡 It wasn’t an overnight evolution, and it wasn’t planned, either.

🖥️ Jason had been watching Luna’s streams and participating in the chat for a while before deciding to join her Discord. There, he was just another member joining random conversations. One day, a single thread turned into an epic-long dialogue. The rest of the server wasn’t invested, but they’d rolled a natural 20 on connection. It was time to move to a private conversation 🤫

☝️ They are the perfect example of how to transition from regular chat to DM. It’s not about finding an excuse good enough to slide into someone’s DMs. After all, they can block you, report you, or ghost you. It’s about knowing that they want to hear from you as much as you want to hear from them 🙂‍↕️

Once there, the usual conversation rules apply. Talk about your shared passions, and get to know the person behind the screen. Eventually, the curiosity might kick in, and you can go on a date, hang out, or even invite them to your next TTRPG session! 🎲

🧱 Leveling up a relationship through Discord may be slightly different, but in the end… we’re all just humans looking for our Player 2 🕹️

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Donate to Extra Life:

https://www.extra-life.org/participant/GamerMom-Luna

Luna’s Links:

  • https://linktr.ee/GamerMomLuna
  • https://www.twitch.tv/gamermomluna
  • https://www.youtube.com/@GamerMomLuna
  • https://www.threads.net/@gamermomluna
  • https://www.instagram.com/gamermomluna
  • https://www.tiktok.com/@thegamermomluna

Related Blog Posts:

  • Find Love Through Online Games, with Kaylee Lopez
  • The TTRPG Group
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  • Find Your Nerd Community

Timestamps for lazy nerds:

  • 00:00:00 Intro
  • 00:00:43 What Makes Them Nerds
  • 00:02:01 Twitch Streamer’s Discord
  • 00:06:16 Transitioning to DMs
  • 00:10:11 More Than Friends
  • 00:13:41 First Date
  • 00:19:23 Making it Official
  • 00:21:54 Avoiding The Friend Zone
  • 00:26:48 From Discord to DMs
  • 00:28:20 Extra Life

Filed Under: Podcast Tagged With: Dating, Nerd Love Stories, Relationships

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