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Hobbit Hike

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Where to Meet Nerds, with Sompi Harmetz

🧝‍♀️ Wish you could find your Fellowship without having to roll a Nat 20 on charisma? Many shy, introverted nerds want to touch grass and be more sociable… without having to join extrovert quests! If that’s you, Hobbit Hike could be the perfect solution! 🙌

In this episode, Sompi invites us to join “Hobbit Hike”, a magical, costume-friendly adventure where nerds, geeks, and gamers gather to touch grass, twirl swords, and unlock their social tree ⚔️ Whether you’re a veteran cosplayer, a D&D dice goblin, or just someone who’d rather sit on a rock in the forest than shout over a hentai lounge, this episode will show you a new way to build your party.

🤯 Hobbit Hike exploded from a handful of cosplay friends to a 70+ member stronghold, all while keeping things introvert-friendly and low-pressure. Sompi’s “assigned extroverts” and buddy systems make sure even the quietest newcomers find their people. With a mix of easy hikes and whimsical costumes, you’ll find that the best connections happen when you’re not racing to the finish line 🏁

Ever worried you’ll feel awkward or make others feel awkward? 😬 Sompi shares her OP-level tips for reading social cues, handling awkwardness, and keeping everyone safe (even if someone shows up with a functional axe!). You’ll learn how to find your niche, when to give space, and how to ask for help if you ever feel uncomfortable. Because every good party has an S-tier healer ⛑️

🖥️ Plus, find out how the community keeps bonding all month long with online movie nights, crafty side quests, and a Discord server that spans the globe. If you’ve ever wished you could just “whimsymax” with people who get your references, this is your invitation to join the campaign 🪧

🎧 Ready to level up your social life and unlock the Tolkien branch of your social tree? Press start and let’s go on an adventure! 🧙‍♂️

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About Sompi

Sompi is the founder of Healthbar Fitness, where she helps nerds, geeks, and gamers level up their health without abandoning the hobbies they love. Her journey began with personal struggles with negative body image and extreme dieting, including a stint in competitive bodybuilding that left her trapped in unhealthy cycles.

Discovering cosplay reconnected Sompi to her geek roots, but the real transformation came when she developed sustainable fitness habits that prioritized well-being over restriction. This approach changed everything—she felt healthier, more energized, and could fully enjoy her hobbies again.

Now, Sompi is on a mission to help other nerds achieve similar transformations. Beyond online coaching, she organizes Hobbit Hike in Las Vegas, where people hike in Renaissance festival outfits, and runs a vibrant Discord community with book clubs, movie nights, and craft sessions.
At Healthbar Fitness, Sompi understands that true health includes community and personal growth—it’s about building a balanced character sheet for real life while still having fun with the things you love.

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Timestamps for lazy nerds:

  • 00:00:00 Intro
  • 00:01:22 What’s Hobbit Hike
  • 00:02:47 Who Joins Hobbit Hike
  • 00:04:10 Fitness Level Required
  • 00:06:34 A Different Hike
  • 00:07:46 Helping Introverts Fit In
  • 00:14:56 Checkin In On Attendees
  • 00:17:08 Reading Signs of Interest
  • 00:19:21 Keeping Everyone Safe
  • 00:24:08 Connecting Outside Hobbit Hike
  • 00:27:06 Start Your Own!
  • 00:27:48 Contact Info